The Divine Feminine

My dad use to tell me to dress respectfully so men would respect me, and I didn’t put much thought into it then.. but now, it’s like they should respect me regardless. DUH. I had a talk with some ladies and this is what came out of this. If we dress too modest we are prudes. If we dress too sexy we are for the streets, and if we dress like a tomboy our sexuality is now at stake. The way we present does not determine the way you treat us. You boys been showing y’all’s nipples for thousands of years with no backlash. Now enjoy this political statement of under boob !

Munchies With Kia

My sister is brilliant and it’s time the world sees what I get to see everyday. This section of StayWhole Media is Munchies with Kia and she will be sharing her different creations, restaurant reviews, and foodie experiences. It’s time we put her light in to the world and it’s time everyone get a chance to experience the love I feel in my belly every time she cooks.

The Will To Change: Journey from Fat to Healthy

There is a specter haunting the tiktok– the specter of body shaming. The innovate and creative ways people can tear down someone who is trying to build themselves up still amazes me. Today I saw a young man on tiktok doing one of the most vulnerable things I think you can do on a social media platform. Document your body transformation. Record your rise from the fatty ashes as the phoenix of physical perfection. Or cry trying.